OK, to clarify.





please, for my sake, take the time to ask yourself these questions.

1)why do you shave your legs? why do you wear makeup? do you feel that these are things you would do with no outside influence? what compels you to craft yourself as "pretty"?

2)why do you assume there is a great divide between "the sexes"? what makes you female? do you ever feel inadequately female? what, if any, are qualities that are inherently female?

3)do you feel bad about yourself and your body? why? how does what you see all around you, all the time, reinforce how you feel about yourself?

4)do you feel pressured to have a relationship? do you feel like love or sex should be your ultimate goal, and if you can't achieve that, you're doing something wrong?

5)how would you define your sexual orientation? what do the words "sexual orientation" even mean, anyway? what makes a person their orientation- the things they do and have done, or is it just some inherent "gayness"?



ok, i could go on forever, but you know. i'm curious if you want to share, but only if you want to.